It’s not about you. It never has been.No one’s saying relationships are easy, but they’re not elaborate plans set up by people who want to see you fail in life either.If you keep getting into arguments with your friends and family, if you get this constant feeling that people are trying to undermine you, if your every relationship is one big misunderstanding, you need to take a step back.Is this really about you?Most of the time, people will tell you it’s not. And they’ll mean it.That decision they made, that oversight you thought was intentional, that issue you believe you should have been consulted on, none of it is about you.It’s Not About You breaks down all the times you thought a situation was about you and helps you realize that no one has ever been out to bring you down. They are all just trying to achieve their own goals.In It’s Not About You, you will discover:

• tried and true strategies to reframe your mindset and avoid similar misunderstandingsthe ways self-fulfilling prophecies and the assuming noble intent affect your personal relationshipsthe importance of apologizing and resolving argumentstips to improve your communication and increase your powerhow making these changes will result in stronger and healthier relationshipsIf you’re going to make this about you, let’s make it about creating a better you.