Good sex with your partner can get even better. There are many ways men and women can both enjoy sex more and better. Just keep in mind that while there are some solid guidelines forimproving your sex life, the best kept sex secrets are the ones waiting to be unearthed in your relationship. Ironically, some of the best sex secrets are those men and women keep from each other. To have good sex, you need to talk about your likes and dislikes. Thousands of books, magazines, videos, and websites provide endless ideas about sexual foreplay, positions, and practices, but they tend to avoid the basic structural issues and downplay what would seem to be the ideal finale of sexual secret for both partners. There is an implicit assumption that lovers don't have that part figured out.One of the most important things to do is to ask and to listen, "A lot of guys are terrified that some people may think they don't know all the answers. Also, some guys think they do know all the answers.