• What hidden force attracts us to a person when we definitely know that he is not for us? • How can we be confident that we are not being influenced by negative forces when choosing a spouse? • Where is the source of the “pseudo-love effect” that often misleads us? • Can physical distance lead to emotional intimacy? • What is the difference between infatuation and love? You will find answers to these and other questions in the book in front of you. Gila Manolson is a marriage counselor in the Jewish community, participates in numerous marriage programs as a teacher, and is a sought-after lecturer in Israel and abroad.