Before you is the first part of the bestseller "Stop raising children - help them grow" Zaryana and Nina Nekrasov, mother and daughter, the authors of popular books about the development of the child, about the relationship between adults and children The authors share the secrets of non-parenting: how to help a child grow, both physically and spiritually, and grow with him as a parent. Here it is important to learn only one secret: children do not need you to “give them the best years of life” and put your whole life on them. The only thing they really need from you is your unconditional love. What it is and why it is so important, how to manifest it and how it differs from just love - they talk about this in this part of the book and a new chapter - the application