Right thinking is your tool for achieving a better life. You are the manager. You give commands. You choose. So let's choose correctly to get what you need and what's beneficial to you. Work on yourself, i.e. over the direction of your attention, over emotions and feelings, over the choice of your thoughts, making them strong. Connect the activity of the mind to this and make it all work for you and for you. Think broadly and in detail. Control your brain, give it the right commands, directing it in the right direction. Make him become your assistant. Make friends with yourself, with your brain, mind, consciousness and you will get what you want.