How to get what you want and want what you have Practical Guide to Fulfilling Desires . Even from a dream you can cook jam, if you add fruit and sugar, said once a satirist. What if on the contrary? Are there such ingredients in nature from which happiness can be created? There are!, says Columbia University psychology doctor John Gray, author of the most famous guide to achieving personal success (sold millions of copies in 38 languages). First, ask God for help.... Second, do not sit on your own, relying on his help .. And thirdly - do not save on love . John Gray: Children are from Heaven. The Art of Positive Education . Men from Mars, women from Venus